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Ascended Master Mother Mary through Kim Michaels, February 1, 2016
I am the Ascended Master Mother Mary. I am happy for this opportunity to speak about the relationship between men and women. As I have said before in greater depth, there is nothing more important on earth than to harmonize and make more aware the relationship between men and women. That is precisely why the dark forces have done everything they could think of to complicate and dis-harmonize that relationship.
Now, I want you to be aware, as spiritual people, that there are different levels. Humankind is engaged in a process of becoming more aware of the differences and the similarities between men and women. It is perfectly valid and very necessary to go through the process of making more and more people aware of what men need, what women need, in order to feel fulfilled in a relationship. This is perfectly valid and necessary.
You, as the spiritual people, can do yourself a favor by thinking a little bit beyond what is commonly available in society. It is not just a matter of knowing what men and women need. It is actually important for you, as spiritual people, to realize that you are not a man or a woman, just because you are in a body of a particular sex. As you become more awakened on the spiritual path, you begin to become more and more dis-identified with your physical body and with the sex of that body, which is not only anchored in the physical body but also in the emotional, mental and identity body.
It is therefore important for you realize that if you are in a male body, you will not become fully complete without discovering and harmonizing with the femininity in your own being. Likewise, of course, if you are in a female body, you need to harmonize with the masculine aspect of your being. You cannot become fully whole while denying the opposite of the sex of your body, the opposite polarity of the sex of your body.
You need to realize here that you are a spiritual being. You have embodied many times on earth. You have not always been in a male body or in a female body. Therefore, you have gone back and forth and you have experienced, so to speak, both sides of the coin. If you are in a female body, it is not a matter of behaving like a man, like you see many women do in the business world in order to be successful there. If you are in a male body, it is not a matter of doing many of the tasks that women have traditionally done in the home or with the children. This is not enough. It is a step in the right direction, but for you, as the spiritual people, you need to go beyond this and realize that you cannot be fully whole unless you connect to the higher identity that is neither male nor female, but transcends both.
The Conscious You that is the core of your being is neither male nor female. It can play both the male and the female role and it has done so in many past lives. When you begin to realize this, you can stop identifying yourself with the roles of man and woman that have been defined on this earth and reinforced over many thousands of years. Do you see why, even though it is helpful to know the different roles and the different needs, if you focus too much attention on them, you will actually cement yourself in those roles and that is not leading to the ultimate spiritual growth.
You only get that growth by transcending the roles. This is a very big challenge in the current climate on earth where these roles have been so locked for so long. That is why you who are the spiritual people are the true spiritual pioneers for forging a new way to look at yourselves and to relate to those of the, so-called, opposite sex. The way to do this is to realize there is no opposite sex, for they are two sides of the same Divine Being.
Copyright © 2016 Kim Michaels